Sorry to randomly comment but it has to be done. YOU are a GENIUS. Thank you so much for writing this. I've been a fan of Kpop for about 7-8 years and, as a white woman myself, I relate to you, it's hard to express the love I have for my randoms to other people that JUST don't understand it and label me as 'abnormal'. For me, the bashing has become so out of control, as you said, if you don't like someone WHY make the effort to insult them? I've never understood the mentality of haters... I much prefer adoring my babies than cursing someone elses pride and joy out of the water. I am very much a silent reader of everywhere I go (which is pretty much everywhere for Kpop) and it's on rare occasions like this that I feel the NEED to post. So again, you rock, you're spot on and the bashing needs to end. ZE:A FANS UNITE <3 (I'm so bad at voicing my opinions via text XD Hence I'm a silent reader bahaha).