Haters to the left...

[onthethruway01]

Dear LJ,

I love my fandom.  It's not easy for a 40 something white  woman to admit to her friends and family that she is obsessed with Korean pop bands.  As a child I faced religious persecution.  As a grown up I've cringed as my co-workers bashed anyone who wasn't white.  I got into fandom as a fluke, and I'm loving every minute of it.  I enjoy reading and writing fan fiction.  I like drawing, doing macros and posting pics and discussing music with you all.  But it distresses me when I go to read some news or see a video of a group I like and find people trashing them so rudely.

Why can't we; a group of people from all faiths, races, and walks of life, enjoy our hobbies without being haters?  Do you want someone to continuously say bad things about the celebrities you like?  What ever happened to diplomacy?  Come on now!  I know you guys are young, but don't let your teenage / young adult angst get in the way of your judgment.

If you really and truly hate a band with a passion, it doesn't matter.  Your cruel words are unnecessary.  Instead of writing  "I think they are shitty and should just quit,"  why not say.  "I'll pass, not interested."  It shows they are not your "cup of tea" without being nasty. 

Do you want to be like those sad people who made Jay Park go home?  Do you want to stoop to their level? Maybe that seems harsh, but as someone who supports all of K pop ( yes I do; I support the whole genre even if i don't follow each individual band), I'm finding it hard to remain calm as one of my favorite groups is continually put down.

I could be a bitch and trash your bands.  Would you like that?  I can be pretty nasty if I so chose.  But instead, I remain calm and let it pass.  I would like to believe that there is some amount of maturity out there.  Don't disappoint me ladies and gentlemen (yes, fanboys, I know you are out there).

Let's unite together as intelligent people who enjoy all aspects of Asian pop music.  Wish the new bands luck, and if you can't say anything nice, then don't say anything at all.

Remember:  Yoochun is always watching you.....

Mazeltov, abi gezunt!

Comments

[onthethruway01.livejournal.com]

Some people like the sound of their own voice or in this case, their writing. I'm not a psychologist, but I think these people who habitually hate are emotionally immature and insecure.

I should charge money for my advice.

[inori88.livejournal.com]

I’m soon to graduated as a psychologist, still I don’t get most of the people xD
You should charge, then get enough money and go to koera, kidnap all the hotties you like and be a happy unni xD

[onthethruway01.livejournal.com]

You are awesome! I have a family and therefore can't runaway on a whim. I had a Korean boyfriend when I was young so we'll just leave it at that. I shall just worship my pretty boys from afar and protect them as if they were my children. I may be middle aged and I can't touch, but I am young at heart and will always have a fondness for Asian men. I can still look and lust; such is the way of an Internet cougar. LOL! I'm so poetic.

[inori88.livejournal.com]

Yes you are! And I love the way you write ^^ you have a family, take them with you… I know you have a daughter right? she can be friend with the younger ones xD

Ok, may be not.... then charge and send me the money to kidnap them! I promise I will take good care of them.

[onthethruway01.livejournal.com]

do not tempt me. I don't want to go to jail I've seen a Korean prison movie. It's not pretty.

[inori88.livejournal.com]

ok ok T_T
now this GOOD GIRL needs to sleep ^^
see you~

[onthethruway01.livejournal.com]

goodnight