Haters to the left...
Jan. 28th, 2010 09:46 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
onthethruway01Dear LJ,
I love my fandom. It's not easy for a 40 something white woman to admit to her friends and family that she is obsessed with Korean pop bands. As a child I faced religious persecution. As a grown up I've cringed as my co-workers bashed anyone who wasn't white. I got into fandom as a fluke, and I'm loving every minute of it. I enjoy reading and writing fan fiction. I like drawing, doing macros and posting pics and discussing music with you all. But it distresses me when I go to read some news or see a video of a group I like and find people trashing them so rudely.
Why can't we; a group of people from all faiths, races, and walks of life, enjoy our hobbies without being haters? Do you want someone to continuously say bad things about the celebrities you like? What ever happened to diplomacy? Come on now! I know you guys are young, but don't let your teenage / young adult angst get in the way of your judgment.
If you really and truly hate a band with a passion, it doesn't matter. Your cruel words are unnecessary. Instead of writing "I think they are shitty and should just quit," why not say. "I'll pass, not interested." It shows they are not your "cup of tea" without being nasty.
Do you want to be like those sad people who made Jay Park go home? Do you want to stoop to their level? Maybe that seems harsh, but as someone who supports all of K pop ( yes I do; I support the whole genre even if i don't follow each individual band), I'm finding it hard to remain calm as one of my favorite groups is continually put down.
I could be a bitch and trash your bands. Would you like that? I can be pretty nasty if I so chose. But instead, I remain calm and let it pass. I would like to believe that there is some amount of maturity out there. Don't disappoint me ladies and gentlemen (yes, fanboys, I know you are out there).
Let's unite together as intelligent people who enjoy all aspects of Asian pop music. Wish the new bands luck, and if you can't say anything nice, then don't say anything at all.
Remember: Yoochun is always watching you.....
Mazeltov, abi gezunt!
I love my fandom. It's not easy for a 40 something white woman to admit to her friends and family that she is obsessed with Korean pop bands. As a child I faced religious persecution. As a grown up I've cringed as my co-workers bashed anyone who wasn't white. I got into fandom as a fluke, and I'm loving every minute of it. I enjoy reading and writing fan fiction. I like drawing, doing macros and posting pics and discussing music with you all. But it distresses me when I go to read some news or see a video of a group I like and find people trashing them so rudely.
Why can't we; a group of people from all faiths, races, and walks of life, enjoy our hobbies without being haters? Do you want someone to continuously say bad things about the celebrities you like? What ever happened to diplomacy? Come on now! I know you guys are young, but don't let your teenage / young adult angst get in the way of your judgment.
If you really and truly hate a band with a passion, it doesn't matter. Your cruel words are unnecessary. Instead of writing "I think they are shitty and should just quit," why not say. "I'll pass, not interested." It shows they are not your "cup of tea" without being nasty.
Do you want to be like those sad people who made Jay Park go home? Do you want to stoop to their level? Maybe that seems harsh, but as someone who supports all of K pop ( yes I do; I support the whole genre even if i don't follow each individual band), I'm finding it hard to remain calm as one of my favorite groups is continually put down.
I could be a bitch and trash your bands. Would you like that? I can be pretty nasty if I so chose. But instead, I remain calm and let it pass. I would like to believe that there is some amount of maturity out there. Don't disappoint me ladies and gentlemen (yes, fanboys, I know you are out there).
Let's unite together as intelligent people who enjoy all aspects of Asian pop music. Wish the new bands luck, and if you can't say anything nice, then don't say anything at all.
Remember: Yoochun is always watching you.....
Mazeltov, abi gezunt!
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Date: 2010-03-22 03:48 pm (UTC)I agree with everything you wrote here. There are lots of groups I don't follow or listen to some groups in the Kpop scene but that doesn't mean it would ever give me the right to bash on them in any way.
I'm still quite worked out of the whole Jay-thing and the fact how so many fans just suddenly switched sides just like, well, turning from Hottest to coldest. -_- It disappoints the hell out of me, because the haters can't never understand how much the whole thing stressed both 2PM and Jay - I mean like, do they need hating on them right now? If it was for me, I'm supporting them, will always support. /rant
Okay forgive this ramble over this XDD The point was that I agree with this entry, thank you for pointing this out.
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Date: 2010-03-22 06:07 pm (UTC)